I'm pretty good S&A...we have been wondering where you are!
I had to laugh about the ooga ooga part...I doubt your wife will really "get it" unless you also beat on your chest! Hey, try that too, though! :0)
My fiance actually makes this low gutteral noise in his throat, similar to a moan but also something different, more animal, while we are beginning to get intimate. It sounds wacky to describe it, but I know for a fact that something about the vibration of this sound in his throat makes my body get ready for him. Its like some primitive communication...a soft yet powerful animal noise...not sure how else to describe it, but maybe the next time you're feeling particularly randy about your wife, you can just relax and see what kind of sounds your throat would make if you didn't give it any voice? I think the key though is in the primal feelings...they are what drives it.
I don't write for a living, but I do love to write and have written many stories, etc. Part of why I love message boards is because I am such a prolific writer that I want to write even when I'm not writing a story...so it gives me a great outlet by writing these essay-long posts.
