I got the same thing from my STBXH. I can't cheat on OW (yeah, glad that was so important to you the months before). We (H and OW) have been together long enough that I owe it to her (but our 7 years obviously means $h!t). The only way it makes sense is as a desperate desire to be the better person now in order to reduce their guilt.
It really does drag us for a roller-coaster ride though sometimes.
((((((Corey))))))
Hang in there.
And maybe plan on coming up to Sac for New Year's...NikB's H is already talking a party....
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
