Kidding me? Now AG, AO and lodo get to set the rules?
No need for censors; oh wait, yes to protect the whiners.
Dogma,
What rules did I set? I'm not protecting the 'whiners'. I saw a situation continually spirally out of control and gave posters suggestions for channeling their energy into a positive direction.
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Lodo, I never got a chance to wish you all the best before your thread locked. Taking a break from this forum will do you good. I really want to thank you again for the Utah travel advice you gave me this summer.
And AG, you have the right attitude with dating - get to know someone as a friend first before really courting them. Have you read "Mars and Venus on a Date"? I hope you stick around and not be discouraged from posting your thoughts.
I like how you have detached and are moving on with your life. I also noted how you were proceeding slowly with G39. I am going to try and do the same if I meet someone. I too married The X too quickly. He was German and needed green card...
Good luck with the settlement.
I will definitely look into Mars And Venus on a Date. I appreciate your post.
One of my W's coworkers was of the opinion that W married me just for the green card. That sure would hurt if that was so, but I know in my heart that she really loved me for most of our marriage. If she wanted the green card only, she would have divorced me a long time ago. I also am of the opinion that differences in culture are not detrimental to a marriage - I think they add spice and variety to it.
