(root) as you can probably infer from reading my story, my wife is nasty for a multitude of reasons:
1)OM left her, she loves him 2)OM made up stupid reasons why he left 3)OM's girlfriend is being a d!ck to her 4)OM got her pregnant and wants nothing to do with her or the baby
oh lets not forget
5)I didn't sign the papers
as you can see, a lot of things are taken out on me. not counting that she's getting ultra hormonal and emotional
BC your wife is nasty to you because she can be. You accept it. Leave her alone and let her stew in her own mess for awhile. The things you listed above are HER problems. She will get over it, or not.
Just continue being a good dad and a good person, but let her be. As long as you are around, she will spew her venom and focus her anger on you, not at herself for the mess she has created. As long as you are willing to make excuses for her, she will continue to treat you that way.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option