KAW Thank you for the wisdom. Next time add in a little whack with the 2 x 4 and MAYBE it will sink in
Seriously, I am so torn between wanting H to just get on with it, whatever it might be, and hanging in there for a LITTLE while longer. Maybe I need to read DR and DB again.
Today was just a teary-eyed blur, except for when I spoke to H. That I remember. And yes, he was coming over anyway and I didn't cut him any slack on the phone. I admitted that I should have reacted differently and the results would have been different. H agreed.
KAW, you have difficult circumstances to deal with in your R. I really do not know what to say, except that I hope things go well for you and W.