Ok just thought of some mitigating circumstances on W behalf.

Stress from all of the house renovations.

Putting on weight and not feeling sexy, W has piled on a few pounds recently.

Me always being ready and standing to attention. (Probably not the best sight when your in the mood).

We still cuddle at night, me fully naked, W in T shirt and thong, much better than the old granny nightie and belly warmers that she used to wear.

So the whole thing could be something or nothing or just another phase.

We'll see.

Lanzo