This man understood something about women that even most women don't understand. He understood that "giving someone a baby" is not actually sexual, its not actually spiritual, but its some how both and neither. To a woman, for a man to "give her his baby" - is the ultimate way he can say he loves her and wants her. He not only wants her sexually, he wants her in an evolutionary sense...which - when this man said that to me - my evolutionary sexuality woke up immediately and knocked on my ovaries and said "whose there? Who just said they were gonna give me a couple of babies?" I was stirred up, in other words...and the guy KNEW I would be!
Great insight. These things - desire, attraction, sex, creation, birth, (and death) - are all interconnected on many different levels. As you say, many women (and men) don't get it (or maybe don't like to think about it).
The more I think of sex as this kind of deep-lying natural dynamic within me - rather than (as I used to) a thing that could be given to me - the healthier I feel.
Just confirming what you said, and at the risk of sounding too graphic, filling a woman deep inside with teeming sperm is undoubtedly the most intense erotic experience I can think of.
S&A
"A man can be destroyed but not defeated" - from The Old Man and the Sea, by Ernest Hemingway.
Which I take to mean that every man has within him a spirit of relentlessness and optimism. Its already there; he just has to cultivate it.
