Hmm, red in scrambled eggs? Sounds strange.

I want to tell everyone how much I appreciate their advice over this past year. It really helped me to vent my hurt on these boards. It also helped for people to offer advice from a perspective I didn't have. Thank you for that gift.

I'm far from healed, but am much better. Perhaps someday I'll even be able to be friends with XW, though I think I need a long period of no contact to make sure I'm completely over our M.

I'm finding this place to be more distracting than helpful, though, so I think it's time to take a break. I'll continue to drop by every now and then, I'm sure.

Good luck and take care of yourselves. lodo


Divorced: 10/26/08