Quoting KAW: Why does this have to be so hard when all we want is to have it better and to be happy? It just doesn't seem right!
KAW, I hear you on this.
I wish it were so easy. But I keep reminding myself this is my life, not a story I've written...while on paper, I hope to one day say: "We separated, we learned a lot about ourselves and then we got back together." In reality, that simple phrase just doesnt' do justice to the process we are going through.
I'm not sure that is very comforting to you (or me!) but I hope it helps.