Just an idle thought. While I am confident there is nothing left between W and XOM, there are still some residual feelings of resentment/pain. I generally do my best to keep them below the surface, and try not to let it affect my actions towards W. W said the other day that she hates the feeling that people consider her "the bad guy" in this. On the one hand I think she should feel the ramifications and consequences of her infidelity. On the other hand I had my own part in the problems in our M and in order to heal and improve our R, there is nothing constructive in trying to continue making her feel guilty about past actions. I don't really have a point or a question, though thoughts/feedback are welcome.


Me45 W35 M6 T8
D16 SD11 D0
Dec 07: Bomb
July 08: Busted!
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