I am just lurking but reading your last post made me think maybe it's time for me to have my MLC albeit I,m a bit late. People are just so nice to you, no questions, no expectations, just generally being treated with kid gloves--yes I could definately live with that.
Well, once again naej spoke my mind... The only reason I am not harsh with you My Lady is that somehow you have a good life in general. Social life, friends, work, flirting... But what you described in that list although shows how committed you are and how much you can endure (correct word?) really doesnt feel right, even as a tactic when it lasts for so long. Also, let me try a bold thought in English: all the things that worked, except for breaking the original ice after the separation, how much further do they take you every time you do them? It's like lifting weights. You have to add some more weight once you have one achieved, right? It doesnt do you any good to keep lifting the same weight over and over again. Unless you are trying to preserve/maintain the "status quo" which obviously is not your wish, you have to "add some more weight"... Am I making sense here? K
naej, where were you when I could have "used you"?
