I got lost but look what I found.

[mishka422]

(((((Lost)))))

Just dropping by to check on you. I hear ya on the loneliness. This was the subject of my DivorceCare class last week. As social creatures we crave attention and affection from other people and when the person we wanted it most from no longer wants to give it we feel isolated even though there are plenty of other people in our lives to give it.

Seek those people out. Find a group of people that share a common interest and force yourself to be involved. I have done that and it has done wonders for my PMA. I'm not saying that I no longer need the loving comfort I once found in my H's arms, but I have been able to replace it with a warm hug from a friend. It is hard but it can be done with A LOT of perservearance.