Heh...yeah feral pretty much describes both mine and Dan's sitch.
Honestly, don't you just love having your own stuff? And the money sharing...no way unless there is an agreement in place, in writing, about who is responsible for what in terms of $$$$. I'm nowhere near rich but there's a little thing called accountability and independence. That's too precious to give up!
Sorry to read about your D and the money thing. She's got the bestest mom though!!!!
