Our pastor had a sermon on living for today at our Tues.evening get to together by the camp fire...she stressed how we can get so wrapped up in what should be, could be..that we miss what we have right now..today. So I think you are on the right path..If we are content with the way our r are going or should I say maybe the way they are just kinda not doing much of anything, then that should be ok...not the way we would idealy like them to be..but for the here and now maybe it is as good as it gets...so why not enjoy life to the fullest in the waiting period!!!???
Dancing in the minefields could be rather interesting too....