I just want to clarify one thing, i am the one pushing for the financials to be in order and the D. I am doing this because for the first time in my life, I am thinking about ME. I just want to protect myself. To me, it is possible to be committed to someone even if you are not married (I have always felt this way). I could have lived the same way and done the same things without actually geting married. I think committment goes beyond paper. Therefore, a divorce is also paper (legal). In my mind the bond has been broken.
Let me see, I could join the church choir, take up yoga or salsa lessons. Keep the suggestions coming. I am leaning towards yoga right now so that i could improve my balance. it is very difficult for a guy to vaccuum in his undies and high heels.
