Well so long as W doesn't make an attempt to move out, I guess I will remain in this forum and act "as-if" we are still "piecing".
Quoting Dagny: How about at least a mental vacation? Give yourself a week or two where you will use every visiualation trick you know to stop thinking of the R, and just do ...
I read this on Jethro's thread just after a hectic week that forced me to do just that and despite being so busy, my stress level was way down, because I didn't have time to ponder what W's next move is gonna be. It reminded me of what I did to keep my sanity during the "dark times" last year and that I need to accept that this what I need to do now ... accept that whatever happens ... happens ... so live for today. Be thankful for what I have today and not waste any time thinking about what will happen tomorrow.
Go back to living for now ... live in the moment ... accepting only what my W is willing to offer ... be grateful and appreciative what that is, for I may not even have that tomorrow ... learn to dance in the minefield.
