midwestern girl - i think it is always ok to pray that. the difference is our prayer needs ot NOT focus on GOD changing them but that God will do a owrk in us. GOD will NOT change the will of someone....I have had a really hard time with that..but it is teh truth. He will always pursue - He will always love- He will always bring truth...but it is the Prodigal who has to decide in him/herself that THEY are willinig to say "Ok God I am yours.."

I still want to be the miracle. I still want to believe that my xh will choose to make the hardest choice in his life and that is to face all the garbage that is inside of him.....Believe me I do. AND I STRONGLY believe that God desires for our families to be put back together...but I also believe that God wants for us, the LBS to move forward in HIS might.


M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06
Moved out 3/12/07
D final 7/30/2008
finding myself again