Hi Sep,

I love your story! Why not believe that it is a sign? Nothing to lose in believing in the best.

I don't think it's crazy talk at all. Have you had any other interesting things happen since you started reading the Secret?

If your H really is going through the mini-MLC (have you read the stages by the way?)then maybe he's going through a withdrawal period where he is just so deep inside himself that he can't share what he's going through with anyone. My H never went dark for that long, but he may as well have. There were very long periods where his IMs were clearly sort of obligatory contacts, and would be 1-2 word greetings. I think you're right just to stay backed off. It's best to believe that if something were REALLY wrong, then he would reach out to you and talk to you about it.

Hope you're doing well today!

ITH


Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years
Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be
S 07/28/08-11/08/08
Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!