Hi K,

Some of W actions are definately similar to what was thrown at me in the immediate post bomb period, with the aim of destablising me to keep a distance between us which enabled her to be with OM. Even when I do good things she finds bad in it.

However, there are somthings which happen which says we are ok(ish). I mean full intermacy (nudge, nudge) has stopped for some time now which is a concern but we do snuggle together at bed time, which was a definate no, no when she wanted to be with someone else. Yesterday I washed her car and she complemented me for doing such a good job,both otherwise I feel an edge when she talks to me, it the old look hard enough and you'll find a fault then pick at it.

But as you say I maybe being overly sensitive to things and misreading the situation, I definatly hope that is the case.

Anyway Barcelona on Thursday we'll see how that goes.


Lanzo