they all mean well but it does get a little over-bearing, doesn't it.
i would ignore it and maybe they will stop asking.
it is a very tight job market and people do not get jobs as fast as they once did.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
I agree! It does get over-bearing. I know they all just care & do mean well. That's what I've been trying to do, ignore it.
It is a very tight job market right now & I'm working on trying to get something in my field but I may have to go outside the industry. If I do I will but right now I'm trying to stay in the industry.
Maybe you can explain to your parents (who will pass the word on) that the job market is very bad right now.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
MWG, Well my parents are the ones that are the worst! I really think they are wanting me to move home so they are pushing the issue for me to sell the house & whatever. Everyone has told me that I shouldn't make any major changes for at least a year. Last year when I thought I was going to move back home it really unnerved me, not sure why b/c I've always wanted to live closer to my parents but I wanted my H there too. Now I don't know how I feel about that, I feel comfortable staying here right now.
True: LOL!!! I sure wish we had some rain but it doesn't look like we are going to get any for a while now.
I've been really tired this weekend & haven't done too much. Today I watched football & cross stitched. I feel drained, I guess it's stress & depression. I didn't really think I was depressed but I guess I have been some.
moving back in with your parents could be a very difficult thing to do as you would not have the freedom that you currently enjoy. living with mom and dad, even though you are an adult, can be kind of uncomfortable.
i agree, you should wait awhile before you come to any major decisions.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
I know, last year when I was thinking about it I just couldn't see me doing that. If I did move back to my home town I would have to get a place of my own. I'm 48 years old & I can't see me moving back home as much as I love it.
Right now I feel this is where I'm supposed to be for now. I know they are going to need me eventually but right now I have to stay here.
And I think the visits you have with them are more special this way. I know they mean well and they are thinking of you but deep down, they know you are an adult, too.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
So true! I love the visits & I love being around them. They are so worried about me, even my Mom said in an email tonight that they are worried & wish I was there or at least closer.
They didn't give their opinion as much when H was around b/c they knew it was between he & I, now it's me & they are trying to take care of things. I know they mean well & I love them dearly but I don't need the pressure right now. I've been just changing the subject when they say anything.
I sure missed my H this weekend. Sitting there watching the football game with the dogs just wasn't the same! They didn't get excited when my team made a touchdown & they wouldn't even listen when there was a bad call made. They just looked at me funny when I would get excited or yell at the TV. LOL
Maybe one of these days. My youngest dog still looks for H, that is sad b/c she just doesn't understand.
NLT you have been through so much right now. It's best NOT to move unless it is really necessary. A move may be in your future, but for now just hang tight.
At least you have your dogs to comfort you. I miss my dog so much. He was my rock. Always at my feet. He was my life companion. Made me happy.
Praise God I have my kids, but my dog was special and had been with our family for 13 years.
I will get a new puppy soon. Maybe next year!
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
