They were at least on your porch and returned, so give her some credit. Could have been like my xs exit. MOnths after her exit, I neatly packed up, wrapped, boxed and cushioned breakables, her family photos and some odds and ends my x 2 left behind and two pieces of furniture. All neatly stacked for her to pick up in my garage. I merely asked for the return of my garage door opener and my script sunglasses that were in one of the vehicles. Never got my script sunglasses back in one of the two vehicles she took off with, found my garge door opener a month later in pieces in the lawn (neighbors say she tossed it out of the window of the moving truck). I had been civil enough that I let her come and go as she pleased to get her forgotten left behind stuff after her major move, while I was on the road for business travel, but after coming home after a week and finding the house in disaray, spit on the walls, photos shredded and then placed back into the picture frames, amongst other stuff. That was it. Hence my packing up what was left and leaving it in the garage. To this day I cannot figure what anyone would do with three identical sledge hammers, three identical picks,five shovels etc. you get the picture. But must have been a fun raid on my garage. So the garage just about got cleaned out and I got a busted up garage door opener left in the lawn in exchange. That was one of those "defining moments" as they say, I chose not to have any contact after asking repeatedly for her to do her exit with dignity and respect - which she chose not to. The unwarranted harassment by her and her offspring continued years after and I continued the no contact. So it's been four years and then some since the garage episode. Never did get the sunglasses back. But I suppose they were still in the expensive custom van when she traded it in - of course it was beat to h@ll and not a straight panel or bumper on it two years after she left (roomate told me where it was when x2 traded it). And now four years and then some since the departure, two people I know said they ran across her in the last couple of weeks and they said the same thing - "She looks like sh!t. Dirty clothes, unkempt, strange look in her eyes etc." (That's not really new news) Be greatful Wii , you don't have to pray for a lost soul everyday.
