New Thread-Husband Moved in With OW(T2L)

[hope3343]

Hi all, where is Jgrind?? miss you.

T2L - hope you survived your Hs visit. Let us know how you made out.

Twinhope, glad you had good weekend with girls. It makes me sad how even the little ones are affected by their father's absence.

This has been the weekend of exposure and it was pretty tough. Talked to my SIL on Saturday. H had talked to her on Friday. she said she was shocked when H told her he had asked me for divorce. She thought he was making a joke. He told her he would be moving out. I filled her in on him leaving on Wed., how he was having A with direct report co-worker, and she was really upset. She told me he had changed so much since we had moved to Tx. She hardly had heard from him. (MLC fog). Then I spoke with D15 and let her know about her father. It went well. I told her that her Dad had made some very bad mistakes and it is wrong to have an A, and that I would continue to work on the myself mentally, physically, and spirtually. I also told her I was still committed to Daddy and loved him very much. She asked if I would be dating anyone, and I told her that I was committed to her and her sister's happiness. She took it well. She said she was disappointed in her father and was mad that he would do this to his family. Then when H came home later. I told him that I had talked to SIL about his A. Then I told him that both of his girls also knew about the A and they both knew who the OW was. He was very upset. H said that it was a lie about OW and I was crazy. So I pulled a page of his phone records that I had showing how she would call H from work and then a minute later he would call her on her cell phone every morning on the way to work, lunch and end of the day. I told him "it misuse of work time" spent talking to each other with private conversations. He was dumbfounded I had this informaton and was upset that I exposed him. I said the girls asked me and I will not lie to them. He said some awful things and then said once we get D I will be all alone. I went crazy and said some very un DB things but then got a grip on myself and walked away. He left the house and I said remember if you call her I will know about it. It was a bad night. On Sunday I went to Ds soccer game, he drove himself the 2.5 hours to watch. He called me before the game and asked if he could sit with me. He apologized for the awful things he said to me. He was embarrassed that the girls knew about OW. It was the first time I saw the real unfog H in awhile. He did not say anything about breaking up with OW. I was not sure about exposure but I agree what T2L sent about exposure and how it would bring everything out in the open which they don't want. Now it is out there. Will keep you posted.
3 days till H moves. Still can't believe it.