LRT when there's INFIDELITY---- from Michele

[mpclay]

Reality, I know Im checking in to this thread late but I have some questions. Your sitch is what I am living. H dropped the bomb I had no idea he was unhappy. H is in a relationship with another woman. He is moving in with her. So can you answer me this. How can you still love her if you are leaving? I just dont get that part. How do I be friends with the person I loved for so long and betrayed me, lied to me and had hurt me so badly. How do I get past the hurt. Do you feel any hurt and if so then why do you not want to try and repair your relationship. I genuinely need answers to these questions? I dont want to be angry the rest of my life but Im having a hard time allowing myself to be kind and not angry at the person who has hurt me so badly. I feel that it makes it OK for him to have done these things. Please help.