W snuck by Fri and dropped off the kids stuff....I'm not even sure the car actually came to a complete stop in the driveway.
Of course I backslid a little Fri night..couldnt help myself. My son needed a ride because my daughter was having 5 of her closest friends spend the night here on Friday night...W took him to where he wanted to go. But, it confirmed that she was going out to dinner with her divorced best friend, who has a boyfriend now...I txt her..'double date?'...never got a reply...She hates if I know what she's up to, she's totally private about her life with me and if I am correct about my txt, then she'd hate to acknowledge it...So..I'm certain it was a dbl date...that snake of a friend of hers is the supreme selfish one, so I'm sure she wouldnt give up a friday night with Boyfriend, so I'm certain with the confirmed no response that it was just that...Anyway..I was pretty anxious about this Fri and Sat. Eventually seeing her with another guy is going to be extremely tough.
Other than that....no contact at all. I'm just hanging back. Some of our close family friends, women, both told me that she's in her own little world and will someday suffer the consequences of her decision, she's just not ready to do that. And..that I just have to continue to be nice, take care of myself and kids the best I can, and not look to her for answers, because she doesnt know them.
So..I guess my question is in regards to her birthday. Its next week. I bought a pretty boring generic bday card. I was just going to sign it and mail it to her, thats all....any tips?
