Thanks Changed!! I think it was a combination of both!! So weird yet it gives a feeling of hope. I just thought that it was so strange that she was telling me to do some of the things that I have already decided to try out. I had only discussed it here on the board and have not told any friends/family about me trying the Secret principals and my goal about the house changes. I figured I would just let me friends see how great my apt looked when they came over.