Yes I will say no as I did above, most courteously.

She called this afternoon, said she was having an allergy attack. I could tell she was upset and I told her to get inside and try to relax. She wanted to know when I would be there as I was going to come to her place to pick up the kids anyway. She called about 30 minutes later in a panic asking, "Where are you?" I told her I would be there as soon as I could. She called one more time but I missed her call. When I returned her call she told me she was OK and that was what she wanted to let me know so I wouldn't rush or speed to get there.

Why doesn't she call OM for such things?

"The answers are within you" (can't remember who). Unfortunately, so is the bullshit.