that damn wife of mine is having a birthday party for our son tomorrow and of course i'm not invited (i had one for him last week). so of course I said to her "why am I not invited ?
It's not unsual for separated or divorced people to celebrate these things individually.
Based on the fact she doesn't want to be married to you, want's a divorce, and tells you she hates you (even if you insist she doesn't), I'm kind of surprised that you would expect her to invite you.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
