While reading your last post and some others, I find that carry too much guilt about the sitches we find ourselves in. Sure we are not perfect but last time I checked, you were not the one acting irresponably. I admire the fact that you are willing to hang in there....I wonder though at times with some of the things that i read why we even bother. I put up with alot of crap in the last 1.5 years. I am still in a funk today but when you look at some of our spouses' recent actions, we should thank God that it happened now and not later. Unfortunatelly, something(s) keep us attached...I am beginning to think that it is the happy times we have had in the past. Something my mom mentionned to me today. "I know you guys had some good times together but do not forget what she has put you through recently". my mom said this without even knowing about the extracuricular activities..... Hang tough if you think that is what is best for YOU and the kids....I am pulling for you.
