also am really wondering if anything is left for me and H I think I am going forward and there seems to be no room for back I may be done with H so for any of you out there that think we never get done I thought I would never let H go but I now see the light at the end of my tunnel life will be fine and maybe better than I knew without H
I think that, in many cases, this is a necessary step...accepting that it is over and the only path for us is one that moves away from H. It is also an emotional realization...at least for me. Even Michelle acknowledges that not all marriages can be saved.
I posted on my thread that I give credit to those who can still love and stand, despite how they have been treated. There are times that I am disappointed in myself for giving up and walking away. But, at what point do you accept reality? At what point do you recognize that it is beyond your control? At what point do you say enough is enough?
You are right - we are in a tunnel too....and we should be working toward seeing the light at the end of our tunnel. Life will be fine and, more than likely, better.....bumpy at times...but good.
