Hey CW, I Have not attended yet but I believe as the counselor tells me it is to help me heal and " get over him". She said she has had miracles happen so you never know. I do know that I will get to tell him about my hurt and anger and that he has to listen to it and mirror it back. I cant imagine this ever repairing. He just informed me that he will be moving in to the ranch home she has purchased. He will be a " Kept man" I guess. It makes me ill thinking about it. Where is the man I married that had integrity, honor, morals and values? How can someone give up their family for a horse and land and a woman that has not morals. He seems to think His teenage boys will be just fine with this. I would never make them go to that house and be with them, one because they are not married and it doesnt set a good example to them and two I really doubt they would want to go. They would probably feel very uncomfortable since they knew her.
H 47 Me 47 Married 24 years together 30 2 boys 16 18 Dropped bomb end of may 08 Sep July 08 D started Sept 19 HS sweethearts
