Update; we went away on our 'family' holiday overseas. slept in sep rooms. I initiated a R talk and got told that WAW thinks we're good co-parents to S3 and she's happy with where things are at. A couple of days later I told her I still loved her and that I could nopt move into another relationship without dealing with that. She told me I needed to "talk to someone" about that..... who is the "someone" I wonder.
On the flight home she confirmed no OM but I'm getting nothing back. I reaffirmed that I still was in love with her the next day and that I was also scared of getting hurt again.
No response, just a blank look.
Am I wasting my time here? should I go with one of the people I have met who seem quite nice? Is that easier than doing the hard yards and opening up (a 180 for me)?
help!!!!
-------- Me; 38 W; 34 1 4yr old S Married 4.5 yrs, together 9 yrs Bomb; 15 June 2007 Holiday together Sept 2008; My Dad dies Nov 2008; reconcliation fails Nov 2008
