I think I agree with Sunshine- it'd be good to list your goals and see if we can work out a way to move towards them. I know you want H to pursue you, but do you think he could be wanting to take things easy and slowly in the spirit of 'having fun' that you guys talked about a few weeks ago? I was just thinking that having fun to him might mean something completely different than it does to you, i.e. that you both have different expectations for how the R should look at this time....
I think it's great that he suggested going to Sydney next weekend- WOW!! I also like that he introduced you to his friends. I wonder if it might be worth holding back on initiating physical contact a little? Step back and let him come towards you a bit more....
And one final thing I was wondering was whether he was slightly cool as a result of the ignored text on Wednesday? I know I said it before, but I genuinely think he was trying to be open with you in the conversation last weekend and may be a bit confused as to why you backed off. CEO (I know he may not be a relationship guru!) says that men are sensitive creatures and that although books tell women to back off, sometimes they get confused by that behaviour and think it means the woman doesn't like them so they get insecure. Even though he's an extremely confident man, he says he gets like that too. Just a thought, anyway!
Oooh, have you re-read the MLC chapter in DR? Just MWDs thoughts on your feelings if/when your spouse does decide to work on the M? I think it's a good bit!!
