Thanks for the thoughts about me confronting H. I should mention that the three times I've called H on his confusing behaviour/the situation, things have become worse rather than better so confronting him now is unlikely to get me closer to my goal (reconciliation?). Jody said I shouldn't do it too, so I'll bear it in mind but may keep it as the LRT for me sitch. Make sense?
I managed to only think of my H about 4 times this weekend- very pleased about that! YAY!!!
