Hi Daisy,

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I still have moments where I think that maybe someone else would be better for me but they leave my mind when I am texting or talking to him. Weird huh?


I don't think this is weird at all. I think at some point we get so sick and tired of the BS that it's hard NOT to imagine someone else being better for us. This is especially the case when you're separated and don't see each other so much. I know sometimes I'm sitting in the coffeeshop and I see other couples, and think that it could be me, I could be in another couple. Then of course when you talk to your H you remember why you're doing all this (provided he's not being an alien).

Sounds you had some nice, non-pressuring communication with your H yesterday. Really well done :).

I like your goals Daisy, and it's good to see that you're feeling more positive. You should, you have a lot of hope in your situation!

ITH


Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years
Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be
S 07/28/08-11/08/08
Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!