I can honestly tell you that they have no concept of time. You will have to take charge of this and get your family where they need to be because your h's lateness. I know, it is all on you, again, and I hate to say it but it will be like this for some time.

About being sick. When they are sick they stay away. When we are sick, there is nobody to take care of us, let alone help out. We still have to do it all.

I know how you are feeling.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19