I think the DAM SHOULD be confused, jealous, and concerned. I don't mean intentionally make him jealous. This just doesn't work with some men, makes them angrier...mine would be one of these examples...
I do think that it is good for him to wonder what you COULD be doing or who might show an interest in you.
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!