hang in there...for me the detachmnt really didn happen like a light switch.
it may have been working toward that goal for a long time but suddenly, one day, it was like a light was switched and i was truly detached.
there have still been anxiety riddled moments some 2nd guessing of my judgements
it is scary to let go because even detaching, while we can see in theory how good it would be for us, is frightening
because in detaching we truly are...letting them go not like a boomerang where we expect them to come back but we are letting them go to come back or stay gone and we are setting ourselves free to see that they are really gone
