When my h first moved out over two years ago, a few weeks after he moved out, he took the kids shopping and bought them expensive things. Buying their love due to guilt....that is probably what your h is doing as well. Try not to think too much about it.
Snodderly is right. You will feel like you are spinning and spinning in several directions. Heck, I still sometimes feel like that but it gets better.
I know this will not make you feel any better but my h missed Christmas and Spring concerts (two years worth) and my daughter's 8th grade graduation. Not to mention Christmas mornings, etc. He has not been home for Christmas since 2005 although all he does now is come over late in the day to join us for holiday dinners.
Hang in there.
Last edited by MidwesternGirl; 09/28/0802:37 PM.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
