Damn straight we aren't the cause of the OM. I could understand someone having a weak moment and a ONS, but, an ongoing R is pure and simple a selfish person with shaky morals and integrity.
Take up yoga and salsa dancing. That should put you in a target rich environment.
Hang in there John, maybe write your W's name on a handful of balls before going to the driving range and then whack the hell out of them.
