He said it just happened, no big deal.

[Lyn]

Hi just wanted to know if anyone has advice on the forgiveness part? I really feel at an impasse. . I know to move on we (I mean me) need to forgive but I can't (right now?). What he did is unforgivable, all the literature say it's not (you can have a much better relationship now) but for me it is. . . So is there anyone out there that felt the same and then was able to move on, forgive? Please let me know. . . .