Hey Daisy!!! Oh trust me I think the same thing...that it's not fair having to work a 50-60 work week but you know what in the end it's worth it. I am maintaining my owm apt and doing well. All the time keeps me busy and from thinking too much of the sitch.
Wasn't one of your H's wishes that you were more independent? Having your own place would be extremly independent and not to mention it feels great for yourself to be able to look around your place knowing that it is YOURS!!! Win/Win!! Also not to mention it will be easier for you two to have more alone time when you see each other.
Hang in there you are going to be fine. Just because he is not calling/texting does not in any way mean that he is not thinking of you. I believe that sometimes the WAH feel guilty and this is why they do not reach out half as much as they would like to.