When he picked us up he seemed a little down. He let out a big sigh and I asked him if he was ok. Of course he said yes. I feel bad for him... I know he feels very guilty for this sitch.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Another thing about the park. I was in the swing and I looked over at him and we shared a smile then when I looked at him a couple minutes later he had my cell phone in his hand. It's a BB and he likes it but why is he looking at my phone after telling me to NEVER touch his. It's not the first time he did this.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Oh and his opinion of the Hash came out this afternoon while explaining that today is his day he said "you get your Sundays for your drunk walk". Sandy was right it does bother him and in annoyance he let it out. All the times before he told me he was glad that I was meeting new people I guess it's not the way he would have liked.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
That's interesting that it's okay to pick up your cell phone (BB) but that his is taboo.. I guess this is one of those scenarios where what's good for the gander isn't good for the goose huh?
I like that you are recognizing these triggers Jen.. 'cause it'll be easier to steer clear of them in the future!
Jen!!! You darn drunk walker!! LMAO..it is so funny how these guys think of our GAL things yet they can do as they please on their time and it's none of our business. The phone thing is the EXACT same thing with my H!!! He will go into my purse and just take my phone yet let me touch his phone..PHEW!!! It's like it's the end of the world!!
Minor backslide but something else that you recognized that you need to control.
when I looked at him a couple minutes later he had my cell phone in his hand.
LOL!!! My H did the same thing. They reach a certain point where suddenly it dawns on them...."Wait a minute, if I cheated on HER, what's stopping HER from cheating on me?"
My H answered my phone when I was driving us somewhere. After he took the call (from one of our kids) he started going through my recent calls and asking me who they were from (umm...the auto mechanic, the dishwasher repairman, etc etc.....). Cracked me up.
Oh, and he's bothered by the Hash because it's dawned on him that one of those guys might actually take an interest in you. Duh.
Hi guys so today was yet another act in the WAS play?
Tonight when he picked up D I told him I'd be home around 9 tomorrow night. It clicked where I was going and he said "oh you have your drunk walk!" I said "I think you owe me an apology" he laughed and said "it's easier to say than hash house WTF!?" (hello? Hash is shorter!!) DAM!
The cell phone is hilarious...he knows that a guy from Hash recommended me for the job I interviewed for on Friday. AND that I called a friend from the Hash to get his number. A day later he's looking at my phone. Last week he was asking what the * meant next to the email sign and what it meant if the light was green or red. I didn't pay any attention then. Umm now I'm wondering.
Funny thing is that there is a guy who, well, is interested in me but I've avoided anything for obvious reasons. Xh doesn't know this (thank God)
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
