If YOU aren't able to remind yourself, you know WE'LL be reminding you
drama free day good.
I'm counting on it.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Yeah, I think it's really clear in your sitch and Jeff's too that it's really not about us it's about the WAS and they need to get their chit together! I hope your H does for his sake, but I know you're going to be great no matter what!!! Karen
A very good friend of ours got married today and we all went. MIL, me and the kids and H.
DS spent the night with H last night so he could go to his teams football game today. They were playing across town (over by MIL's house) and DD and I didn't feel like getting up. So H calls and tell me that he and DS are going to get ready over here. No big deal. So I'm drying my hair and I look over and H has my cell phone and is looking through it...WTF? So I'm playing and tell him that I want to see his and he of course grabs it and so I was trying to get it and get mine back. We were wrestling and I just told him that he must have something in there to hide if he wouldn't let me see it. He tried to turn it around on me, telling me thats why I took mine back so fast and then accused me of looking in his phone when he wasn't looking. I started to defend myself and jump into the pit and then I stopped. I just looked at him, rolled my eyes and said, "I don't want to read it anyway."
So I was done getting ready and I said that this was as good as it was going to get and he said it was for him too. So I remarked at least he knew he could get a date and he came up behind me and aksed me why I wanted to find a date since he was coming home...again WTF???? I didn't even reply, just gave him the raised eyebrow and that was that.
It was fun to see some of the people that we used to hang out with, but it was also very akward at the same time. Listening to them take their vows was really hard too...I cried. It was in a backyard so we were standing and H kept his hand on my shoulder the whole time. We left really eary because DS was in a lot of pain and DD wanted to leave too. I would have liked to have stayed longer, but it was probably time to go.
So men out there or WDID, what the hell is this all about now?
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
So I was done getting ready and I said that this was as good as it was going to get and he said it was for him too. So I remarked at least he knew he could get a date and he came up behind me and aksed me why I wanted to find a date since he was coming home...again WTF???? I didn't even reply, just gave him the raised eyebrow and that was that.
Sorry, but I didn't get it.
More explaination. Were ya'll play wrestling or were you acting pissed?
It sounded strange all the way around. Acting like you and he are 'together' almost. He's goofy.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
When I was trying to get my phone, we were playing. Him acting like that about his phone pissed me off though. Its such BS.
I was only commenting on my appearance...I was as cute as I was going to get once I got done getting ready. I guess I was either fishing for a compliment or feeling sorry for myself when I told him that at least he knew he could get a date (I meant someone else. He knows he can find someone else) and then he pulls that -"I'm coming home" stuff.
I just got a text from him. "You home yet?" and now hes trying to play it off like it was for me. He already told me the Troll is out of town... WHATEVER!!!!!!
I just don't understand why the "I'm coming home" chit has to start again. Makes me crazy.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Maybe he is testing the waters to see if you would take him back? How is he doing with the gambling problem? I would keep the focus on you but see if his actions are following his words.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
