Oh, I gave the ultimatum. I hated doing it but I felt that I had no choice. I told her in no uncertain terms that unless she stopped this, it was over.
We still have yet to attend out first session. We're still shopping for a good person. She told me that she didn't want someone who wouldn't do everything to help us get past all of this stuff. Hopefully she's being honest and this will work.
M:42 W:38 D:9 S:6 married: 15+ together: 12.5 Bomb dropped: 4/18/05 Back together: 9/30/07 In trouble again: NOW