Originally Posted By: Survival_Goddess
Why does X want to re-negotiate the settlement? Is it to come up with a reasonable plan for you to get your money? ;\)


Uh, noooooooo...... I'm sure he thinks he can charm me to take nothing or at least attempt to guilt me into taking a lot less than he owes. Thing is, I have no desire to see or talk to him. It gives me very unpleasant/icky feelings that I can't even really describe. I'm over being mad at him and he really doesn't even generate any type of reaction from me. I have forgiven him and I've taken my share of the blame in the demise of our M. I honestly feel nothing.....

Good news is that things with my D has improved immensely since our court date. I don't know if it's relief (for her) that it's over or if it determined the truth for her. Either way, I'm back to getting several phone calls a day, loving email msgs, etc.