I think my H is offend by me this weekend. I invited my parents for a visit this weekend to see my new house. I didn't tell H because I didn't want him coming over. The Ds told him about a the visit and he asked me when they were coming. I told him but gave him no invite. Last night he called me with an excuse to come over and bring me something I needed from his house. I told him it wasn't necessary as I wouldn't use it until my parents were gone. I haven't heard from him all day today although he has texted and called the Ds. I hope I am sending him a message that I have some control here.


R 23 years
M 20 years
Bomb June 2007
S Oct 2007
Ds 11 & 16
Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008