Hey, MP....I know how much hurt you are going through. It is so difficult to know when it's time to "give-up". I actually was talking to a DB counselor for a while and I asked her that question. She said "when he's walking down the aisle with another woman". I think that might be a little extreme, but she said she's known relationships that worked out with the most hopeless circumstances.
Anyway, I'm curious...what is Divorce Counseling?? Does it ever end up in a mended marriage or is the sole purpose to get over the other person?