Hi K! I am glad my friends had fun together. You two deserve some happiness.
My H acts like he cares in front of the Ds too. I think you are right about them wanting to know if they still have an effect on us. They like to control things and they don't seem to like losing control.
R 23 years M 20 years Bomb June 2007 S Oct 2007 Ds 11 & 16 Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008