I know exactly what you mean TAL. Your husband needs to take you out somewhere nice and let you feel like the sexy, wanted woman that you are. My H and I are out in the mountains again, just like we used to 30 years ago when we were dating. Those 25 years spent raising children nearly killed "us", or maybe it did kill "us". It was just luck that we resurrected the relationship and are now in the mountains on vacation again. And the kids are home taking care of the house.