Thanks Jak.. I did say something to him but along the lines of, it didn't make me feel too good and that although it wasn't really a big deal, considering his "history" I would rather him not go. OR go with me. he said it was nothing, and that the food was good, YA right, how freakin stupid does he think i am. i told him he's got enough "hooters" at home, enough for an army!

Later He called me and asked where I was, i said i was at the "men's hooters" checking out the dongs \:\) it was funny, I was laughing my azz off.

no but really, i was upset, but I got over it and went to community day with my mom and there was a guy there, 58 years old that has been teasing my mom about wanting to take me away to the islands alone. of course she puts him in his place and calls him a dirty old man. So he approaches me today and we were just kidding around and my mom went over to talk to someone else. He Actually came up to me and told me that if I was available during jan-march that he would love me to join him in the dominican republic.. I said if you can fight off my kids, my husband and my mother, and the fact that Im married, go for it. i just laughed, it was harmless, but it actually felt "good" even though he was older, someone else found me attractive.

Ya know having kids, and taking care of them, the house my H and the business, i slowly feel like im losing myself sometimes and i don't feel too womanly, just a mommy, so once in awhile its nice for someone else to notice that, that's not all that i am.

i don't think that's wrong, right? LoL

hooters I guess is the least of my worries.

I hope

me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.